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Help! I Have Kids!
Help! I Have Kids! is the podcast for moms who are doing their best, asking all the right questions, and still wondering if something’s being missed. Hosted by Pam—a mom of five and pediatric occupational therapist with 35 years of experience—this show helps you trust your gut, advocate for your child, and partner with professionals without the overwhelm.
Each week, you’ll get practical tips, real-life stories, and heartfelt encouragement from experts and fellow moms who’ve been in your shoes. Because, as moms, we are the head of our child's medical team!
Help! I Have Kids!
What Is a Tongue Tie—And Does My Baby Have One? | Episode 9
Is your baby struggling to nurse, refusing the bottle, or constantly fussy—and someone suggested it might be a “tongue tie”? You’re not alone, and you don’t have to stay confused.
In this episode, Dr. Amy Luley, a trusted provider and expert in tethered oral tissues (TOTS), breaks down what tongue and lip ties really are, how they affect feeding, speech, and sleep, and what parents should know about evaluation and treatment. She also shares her own story of navigating tongue ties with her first child—and why she is passionate about helping families today.
You’ll hear:
What tongue, lip, and cheek ties actually are—and how they show up in infants and children
The most common symptoms and myths about tongue ties
What a proper evaluation looks like vs. a quick check
How the frenectomy procedure works using a LightScalpel CO₂ laser
What resources and support families can expect after treatment
If you’ve ever wondered whether your child may have a tongue or lip tie—or if you’ve been told “breastfeeding is just hard”—this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and practical next steps.